How To Feel Sexy, Not Awkward, Using Lube
Over at my Bustle column, I recently got this question from a reader:
“I’ve read about the benefits of using lube during sex. I am definitely on the drier side, so I know I should give it a shot. I bought some, but in the moment, I just can’t bring myself to actually use it during sex. I feel awkward interrupting the moment to pull out the bottle. I feel weird and on display slathering it on myself. Is there a way to put on lube that’s sexy and doesn’t pause everything?”
I’m a huge lube advocate, and I think it’s about time we stop stigmatizing lube and start realizing how sexy it can be!
In my response to this reader, I offered eight ideas for getting more comfortable and having more fun using lube.
My favorite tip is also the simplest – decant your lube into a beautiful pump dispenser that you can keep on your bedside table! The bottle won’t look out of place, so you can keep it within reach instead of having to bury it at the bottom of a drawer. The pump dispenser makes it easy to get a bit of lube in your hands without having to fiddle with a screw top. And if you buy a bottle that you really like, it will instantly make the whole experience of using lube feel more luxurious.
Pop on over to Bustle to read my other seven tips, then head over to here to purchase one of my absolute favorite lubes!