“Hmm, sex sounds kinda fun right now. But I’m right in the middle of a chapter of my book. And Xander is playing some records…
Read MoreA few weeks back, I got this email: “That ‘grabbing the boobs’ thing you mentioned in your email? My partner tries to initiate with me…
Read MoreHow do you decide whether to say “yes” or “no” to your partner when they initiate? If you’re like most people, when your partner makes…
Read MoreTell me if this sounds sexy to you: “So, uh, I guess it’s been a while, huh?” Last week I talked about how no one…
Read MoreDo you struggle with initiating sex? Maybe you get shy and awkward, and end up tripping over your words. Maybe you’re too uncomfortable to initiate…
Read MoreXander and I are back from our anniversary celebration trip, and we’re excited to share the final Reader Request video with you! (Missed the other…
Read MoreGreetings again from South Africa! Xander and I celebrated our eight year wedding anniversary on Tuesday, with a gondola ride up Table Mountain, lunch at…
Read MoreGreetings from South Africa! Xander and I are here celebrating our eight year wedding anniversary. (We’ve been together for almost twelve!) We take a trip…
Read MoreWe decided to do something new this month and let YOU pick the topic! Have a burning sex or relationship question? Need advice about your…
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