The Modern Man’s Guide

Conquer performance pressure


Picture this…

There’s a beautiful woman in your bed (maybe she’s your wife, your girlfriend, or some cutie you just met). She’s got that look in her eye. She’s telling you she’s ready. She starts moving towards you. The anticipation is almost too much to bear. You can feel every cell in your body screaming, “Yes! Yes! Yes!”

And then it happens…

The anxiety hits you like a tidal wave.

You know that the sex you so badly want to have in that moment is just not going to happen for you.

You’re not going to be able to get it up. Or you’ll lose it half-way through. You’ll come too fast. Or not at all.

It’s an awful feeling. It’s enough to make you not even want to attempt sex in the first place.

This doesn’t have to be your fate…

Introducing… The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure

Course Overview

The Modern Man’s Guide is a comprehensive and innovative approach to resolving performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, early ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation. You’ll learn:

How It Works

The Modern Man’s Guide contains eight different online modules. You’ll be led through a series of guided exercises that you can work on from the privacy and comfort of your own home. You’ll get Preparation exercises, that you can work on on your own, and In The Moment exercises that you can use when you’re with a partner.

You get lifetime access to the course, so there are no deadlines or timelines. You can return to the course for a confidence boost whenever you need one. You also get free access to all future updates and upgrades.


Approach Sex With Confidence and Ease!

I’m Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom.

I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, Lifehacker, Rolling Stone, GQ, Esquire, Playboy, and many more.

I look forward to helping you take your sex life from ordinary to extraordinary!

"I feel more in tune with and in control of my body. I have tricks to fall back on. And to top it all off – I’m having the best sex of my life. " - Tim C.

Is This For You?

The Modern Man’s Guide is for you if:

  • You experience problems with your erection or orgasmic timing.
  • You consider yourself a more evolved type of man than the current “solutions” for performance anxiety seem to target.
  • You don’t want to pop prescription pills or sketchy supplements for the rest of your life.
  • You don’t want to try those asinine pick-up artist alpha-male techniques.
  • You’re done with the same old tired advice in men’s magazines.
  • You also don’t want to keep feeling emasculated by problems with your erection and orgasm.

“I’ll be honest – this program took a lot of thought and effort. It’s not for guys looking for a ‘quick fix’. But after working my way through the program, I’ve found that my confidence has increased exponentially. I understand why I was having erectile difficulties. I feel more in tune with and in control of my body. I have tricks to fall back on. And to top it all off – I’m having the best sex of my life. I don’t know what I would have done if I hadn’t found this guide.”

– TIM C.

What You Get

  • The complete 8-module Modern Man’s Guide system.
  • Confidential online course.
  • Lifetime access to The Modern Man’s Guide.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
  • $249


    What To Expect When You Purchase

    Your Sex Life Is Worth It

    Working with me one-on-one to get the same transformation you’ll get with The Modern Man’s Guide would cost well over $3,000.

    There’s no denying that The Modern Man’s Guide is an investment. But why shouldn’t you make an investment in having phenomenal sex?

    We balk at the idea of investing in our sexuality, but is having the latest iPhone or a new pair of shoes really going to make you as happy as that sly little look you and your partner exchange after you’ve just had toe-curling, mind-blowing sex?

    Your sex life is worth investing in. Get ready to leave performance anxiety in the dust, and start approaching sex with confidence and ease.

    Go All In

    You may be curious about a refund policy, so I want to be clear that I don’t offer one.

    I am fully transparent about the fact that overcoming performance anxiety is a process. I don’t want you to put pressure on yourself to completely transform before a 14-day refund window passes. If you feel rushed to change, that will guarantee that you won’t change.

    Instead, you’ll have my guarantees of lifetime access and future upgrades to help you keep improving for life.

    I know it takes a leap of faith to start a journey like this, but I promise you, once you’ve experienced what it’s like to supercharge your confidence in the bedroom, it will all be worth it.

    Eliminating Performance Anxiety


    You’re Ready For This

    … because you’ve stopped enjoying sex as much as you used to.

    … because you’re tired of not knowing how to stop your snowball of anxiety.

    … because you’re worried that things are getting even worse.

    … because you’re sick of feeling anxious every time you’re about to have sex.

    … because you’re ready to take charge of the situation once and for all, and get real, lasting results.

    Have A Question About My Courses?

    I want you to feel supported in making a decision about joining any of my programs. If you have any questions, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use the contact form below to get in touch!